LA DOMAINE ESEMAR is the world’s oldest, and many say finest, BDSM training chateau and getaway.

Celebrating 29+ Years

For more than two and a half decades, La Domaine has been providing, as Skin Two Magazine said in 1996: “High Level SM.” Now, more than two decades later, reviewed in media around the world, having been the subject of TV shows and documentaries from Australia, Russia, Germany, Venezuela, England, and the US, and having been published and quoted as experts in newspapers and magazines as wide ranging as the Huffington Post to the London Sun, and with appearances on Lisa Ling and Vice Network among others, LA DOMAINE ESEMAR remains a simple, small, ranch house, with down to earth people, on a beautiful mountain side in upstate NY.

Training, Events, Education & Getaway

That ranch house just happens to provide some of the finest training for Mistress, Masters, slaves and submissives, professional and private, house and personal, found anywhere. It is also THE Get-away For Couples; the very first Bed & Dungeon. (Master R coined the term in 1993!) In the past 25 years, over 500 Couples have visited La Domaine. They have learned and loved here, and many of them still think of La Domaine as “home.”

The La Domaine Mistresses and Masters are like no others. With their firmly and carefully developed sense of the importance of BDSM in human psyche, La Domaine sessions, offered to individuals and couples, are at the highest end of professional BDSM session skill.

La Domaine’s Mistress and Master in Training Program has trained some of the finest professional and private Mistresses and Masters around today. Short visit, weekend and in-depth training are all available.

We also have: the most amazing, Couples Parties with special Guest Workshop presentations, an incredibly well-equipped Dungeon, a large, out-of-doors play spaceSpecial Events and Educational Workshops and gourmet Dinners in the Dungeon. The La Domaine Kitchen is renown among chefs, and uses only the finest organic and all natural foods! Come dine with us.

Master R is available to provide and has been giving Educational Presentations and Workshops for Colleges, Mensa groups, BDSM organizations and rowdy bars since 1985. He is frequently joined by other members of the La Domaine family. These presentations are often said to be life changing. Please use the contact information below to inquire.

With all this to offer, we ask you be patient while we bring our new website to fulfillment. All the links will soon have both the appropriate information and the sexy photos you came to expect when you went to the old website.

Think You Are Not Advanced Enough?

One of the most important things to remember when looking through our website is that everyone here started as a beginner. We all greatly enjoy working with beginners, and we feel there is no better place on earth to start your explorations. One of the most central precepts we teach here is: “It does no good to take anyone anyplace they do not belong.”

This danger is one that novices face in their explorations, but it is a danger that is lessened here specifically because of the advanced level of expertise you will encounter at La Domaine. At La Domaine, no one will ever take you somewhere you do not want to go. We will even stop you from going to places we feel you are not yet ready to explore.

Please do not feel deterred because you think you are not advanced enough to share with us. Rather, you should feel this is the finest, as well as the safest, place, to begin your earliest explorations. If you are taking the first few steps out of your own bedroom, whether you are an individual or a couple, please understand that you are welcome to come and grow with the extremely knowledgeable Mistresses, Masters and slaves at La Domaine, and your sexuality will be the most enhanced by starting with the best that is available for your journey.

We Look Forward To Hearing From You

For more general information, answers to questions, and to make reservations, please contact La Domaine directly at MasterRLaDomaine@gmail.com or call and have a fun conversation: (518) 375‑3387, 10am – 7pm EST, Monday – Friday only please!