Welcome…
to the new site for the original LA DOMAINE ESEMAR, the world’s oldest, and many say finest, BDSM training chateau and getaway.
“It’s not the size of the chateau, it’s the quality of the wine.” Wine critic Robert Parker
Coming Attractions for 2024
DOMINA LYNNE RETURNS
MAY 9 – 13
We all love our new Mistress. As for their first working visit at La Domaine, we have one word: impressive. But since they deserve more than one word: Domina Lynne is everything we had hoped for and more. Their dominance is outstanding; strong and caring, lots of touch and connection, and their wide skill set all combine to make Lynne a valuable addition to La Domaine.
Lynne lives relatively far away so we like to post her visits in advance. Please note that their next visit coincides with a party weekend. (with ISABELLA SINCLAIR – WHAT A WEEKEND!) It will be busy. Please do your session, and Couples Party booking soon. It’s a busy weekend.
MESTRA JUSSARA
May 29 – 31
We are thrilled to present the internationally renown Brazilian Dominatrice, MESTRA JUSSARA. At the end of May, Mestra will be making her first visit to La Domaine. Her skill set is all across the board, Jussara is an extremely well-rounded professional, whose specialty de jour is toilet training. (She is known as “The Queen of Brown.”) She is a stunning, intelligent and power-filled South American beauty.
While these pictures will let you appreciate her body, for international reasons, she is a bit shy about showing her lovely face. To be entranced by her Dominance, whatever your fetishes may be, please make your appointment early. This is truly a limited time offer.
THE PARTY LIST IS BEGINNING TO TAKE SHAPE;
HERE’S A SNEAK PREVIEW OF OUR GUEST MISTRESSES & MASTERS
WE BEGIN WITH:
MISTRESS ISABELLA SINCLAIR!!!
MAY 11th
Many knowledgeable people say that Mistress Isabella Sinclair is one of, if not the, greatest Dominas in the world. Master R has tried for decades to have the honor of her visiting and being a La Domaine Couples Party Guest Mistress. Finally, this May, we get to welcome this truly remarkable woman to La Domaine.
Isabella Sinclair began her career in 1993, the year La D began. I could go on and on about Isabella, her accomplishments, her personality, her skills, but I’d rather you heard her speak for herself. Here is a lengthy, wonderful, interview Isabella did a few years ago. Settle in, eat some pistachio nuts, and enjoy! OK, I’ll explain the pistachio nut reference. If you remember an ad about a decade ago, for pistachio nuts, that featured a stunning Dominatrix in black leather cracking open pistachios with a bullwhip…
Reserve your place at this party as early as you can.
NEXT COMES:
MASTER SNOFLAK!!! – JUNE 15
I love this progression; we go from one of the world’s greatest to one of our local community giants. MASTER SNOFLAK has been a mover and a shaker in the Hudson Valley for decades. Years ago, they were one of our early GM’s. (Guest Mistress/Master). They were the creator of FEEL ME BREATHE, the group of groups in the Valley. It is not an exaggeration to say that Master Snoflak was a crucial creator of the Hudson Valley community. Besides all the sexual power Snoflak has, it is the quality of heart that makes knowing this Master so worthwhile. Just take a look at their Fetlife page for a lot of insight into that.
Another Couples Party GM set. July’s Guest Mistress is… the very special …
MISS EMMA SWITCH
JULY 20TH
FROM BELGIUM TO BUCHAREST TO CHICAGO TO
LA DOMAINE!
THE GREAT EUROPEAN WRESTLING DOMINATRIX, EMMA SWITCH will be honoring us with her visit to La Domaine.
Emma is not just into wrestling. She is a fine Dominatrix, with a worldwide reputation. Between her wrestling interests and her great abilities as a Domina, this should be a body slam of a party. Clotheslines will be appropriate. Leg scissors are a must. Sleeper holds after midnight only! There will be three counts!!! But will there be a Last Slave Standing?
NOTE: Emma has agreed to present a KINKY WRESTLING WORKSHOP SATYRDAY AFTERNOON. The last time we did a KINKY WRESTLING WORKSHOP, it was a total sell-out. It was also a fantastic amount of fun. This is yet another, sign up early, warning, particularly for the workshop. Attendance will be very limited.
Emma will also be available for private sessions July 19 and 21.
THEY’RE BACK – BY POPULAR DEMAND!!!
MISTRESS CRIMSON AND HILTON!!!
August 17
Two of our (almost) annual favorites will be returning for another joint hosting of a Couples Party. Mistress Crimson has been a NYC great for 30 years. Crimson has been visiting La Domaine for that entire time and we love and respect her enormously. Hilton, has been the founder and proprietor of Purple Passion for just a wee bit longer than La Domaine has been La Domaine! Purple Passion is NYC’s best store for all things kinky: books, fetish clothing, toys and all your favorite et ceteras. They always make a wonderful, laid back, party happen. If you have been hesitant about partying with others, this is the event for you. We are also planning a caning workshop for Satyrday afternoon. This will be part history (Hilton really knows his history) and part hands (?) on.
BEAT BANG AND BLOW!
MASTER R’S 75TH BIRTHDAY PARTY
SEPTEMBER 28TH 8 PM
WITH A VERY SPECIAL CONVERSATION FROM 3 TO 5
BEAT THE DRUM, BANG THE CYMBALS, AND BLOW THE HORNIES!!!
The bubbly will be flowing and asses will be glowing. From 3 – 5 Master R will reminisce and do a unique Q and A. R’s career in professional BDSM goes back to 1969 when he was a professional submissive in NYC’s underground SM scene. His La Domaine memories go back to 1993. This is your chance to share in his old age anecdotage. Need we say more?
Yes, gifts are welcome. French Champagne and Saffron was his reply when asked what he wanted. (No Veuve please!)
BUTT WAIT: THERE’S MORE!
ANOTHER GREAT MASTER RETURNS
MASTER AVERY!!!
OCT 19TH 8 PM
Master Avery with James Franco’s Left Hand
Any idea how HARD it is to find a competent professional Master – let alone a truly accomplished one? Take it from us – it is an enormous challenge. There is no doubt; we have one for this party. Master Avery has done it all. Here, in his own third person words, is his reply when I asked him to send me two or three paragraphs of biographic material. What Avery sent impressed me in its entirety so I thought it best to just show you all of his reply. Incidentally, Master Avery will be available for sessions Oct. 18th and 20th. Openings are limited, please book as far in advance as possible.
MASTER AVERY
“Master Avery, a venerable figure in the BDSM community, has dedicated over 16 years to his craft as a professional provider and nearly three decades to the broader sex worker industry. Throughout his illustrious career, Master Avery has consistently reinvented himself, maintaining a commitment to excellence and innovation. His journey is marked by the establishment and operation of his own dungeon in the vibrant heart of New York City, a testament to his enduring presence and influence within the community.
In addition to his personal achievements, Master Avery has played a pivotal role in shaping the next generation of BDSM practitioners. He has mentored numerous emerging talents, both male and female, imparting wisdom and expertise gleaned from years of practice. His contributions extend beyond individual mentorship, as he served as the house Dom at Bound Gods, a prestigious platform hosted by Kink.com. This position allowed him to influence and elevate the standards of BDSM practices on a broader scale.
Master Avery’s unique talents caught the eye of Hollywood, leading to a collaborative partnership with James Franco. He contributed to several of Franco’s films, invariably cast in the compelling role of a gay leather master. This foray into the cinematic world broadened his horizons and introduced his craft to a wider audience.
Following his endeavors in film, Master Avery has refocused his energies on his first love: the art of BDSM. He is currently engaged in expanding his New York City dungeon, located in the culturally rich area of Union Square, Manhattan. This project reflects his ongoing commitment to creating immersive and transformative experiences for his clients.
Beyond the confines of the city, Master Avery offers unparalleled experiences in the Bahamas, where he invites clients to embark on extended, immersive boat slave experiences aboard his vessels. This innovative offering merges the thrill of the open sea with the depth of BDSM practice, creating a unique niche within the industry.
Master Avery’s journey is a testament to his adaptability, creativity, and unwavering dedication to the BDSM community. As he continues to explore new avenues and expand his influence, his legacy as a pioneering and respected figure in the field is assured.”
IMPORTANT: SHOW US YOUR INTEREST…
We are seriously considering doing a SUBMISSIVE TRAINING WEEKEND and a separate DOMINA TRAINING WEEKEND sometime this fall. Our ideas are flowing. We are open to input. Your ideas could help shape these projects. VERY IMPORTANT; if you think you are interested in attending, please reach out to us. We have had requests to revive these weekends for years. Now we are trying to gauge the active interest. If you think you’d like to attend, or if you’d like to hear our thoughts on what will be happening, please send us an email or call Master R. 518 375 3387, 10 – 7 est, m – f. Masterrladomaine@gmail.com
PLEASE SIGN UP FOR THE LA DOMAINE NEWSLETTER
(See tab and link to the right)
We try to make it a very interesting read. It will keep you informed on the special events that are happening here, what great Masters and Mistresses are visiting, sessioning and teaching, and what upcoming La Domaine seminars, workshops and extended workshops will be taking place.
Sign up and you will be among the first to know when we are doing our special Dinners in the Dungeon, Wine Tastings and slave beauty’s remarkable chocolate tastings w/ lecture. In addition, each Newsletter has links to very special erotic artists and crafts persons. (If you have artists to recommend, please let Master R know who you feel we should be highlighting.)
Each Newsletter also has a touch of philosophy, BDSM history, and even a bit of Master R’s senseless of humor. It occasionally contains anecdotes from the greatest La Domaine adventures and misadventures. It always has interesting photographs.
Signing up for The Newsletter is an essential part of staying in touch with what is happening at La Domaine, so please sign up, share the fun, and join in the excitement.
Celebrating 30+ Years
For more than three decades, La Domaine has been providing, as Skin Two Magazine said in 1996: “High Level SM.” Now, more than two decades later, reviewed in media around the world, having been the subject of TV shows and documentaries from Australia, Russia, Germany, Venezuela, England, and the US, and having been published and quoted as experts in newspapers and magazines as wide ranging as the Huffington Post to the London Sun, and with appearances on Lisa Ling and Vice Network among others, LA DOMAINE ESEMAR remains a simple, small, ranch house, with down to earth people, on a beautiful mountain side in upstate NY.
Training, Events, Education & Getaway
That ranch house just happens to provide some of the finest training for Mistress, Masters, slaves and submissives, professional and private, house and personal, found anywhere. It is also THE Get-away For Couples; the very first Bed & Dungeon. (Master R coined the term in 1993!) In the past 30 years, over 700 Couples have visited La Domaine. They have learned and loved here, and many of them still think of La Domaine as “home.”
The La Domaine Mistresses and Masters are like no others. With their firmly and carefully developed sense of the importance of BDSM in human psyche, La Domaine sessions, offered to individuals and couples, are at the highest end of professional BDSM session skill.
La Domaine’s Mistress and Master in Training Program has trained some of the finest professional and private Mistresses and Masters around today. Short visit, weekend and in-depth training are all available.
We also have: the most amazing, Couples Parties with special Guest Workshop presentations, an incredibly well-equipped Dungeon, a large, out-of-doors play space, Special Events and Educational Workshops and gourmet Dinners in the Dungeon. The La Domaine Kitchen is renown among chefs, and uses only the finest organic and all natural foods! Come dine with us.
Master R is available to provide and has been giving Educational Presentations and Workshops for Colleges, Mensa groups, BDSM organizations and rowdy bars since 1985. He is frequently joined by other members of the La Domaine family. These presentations are often said to be life changing. Please use the contact information below to inquire.
With all this to offer, we ask you be patient while we bring our new website to fulfillment. All the links will soon have both the appropriate information and the sexy photos you came to expect when you went to the old website.
Think You Are Not Advanced Enough?
One of the most important things to remember when looking through our website is that everyone here started as a beginner. We all greatly enjoy working with beginners, and we feel there is no better place on earth to start your explorations. One of the most central precepts we teach here is: “It does no good to take anyone anyplace they do not belong.”
This danger is one that novices face in their explorations, but it is a danger that is lessened here specifically because of the advanced level of expertise you will encounter at La Domaine. At La Domaine, no one will ever take you somewhere you do not want to go. We will even stop you from going to places we feel you are not yet ready to explore.
Please do not feel deterred because you think you are not advanced enough to share with us. Rather, you should feel this is the finest, as well as the safest, place, to begin your earliest explorations. If you are taking the first few steps out of your own bedroom, whether you are an individual or a couple, please understand that you are welcome to come and grow with the extremely knowledgeable Mistresses, Masters and slaves at La Domaine, and your sexuality will be the most enhanced by starting with the best that is available for your journey.
We Look Forward To Hearing From You
For more general information, answers to questions, and to make reservations, please contact La Domaine directly at MasterRLaDomaine@gmail.com or call and have a fun conversation: (518) 375‑3387, 10am – 7pm EST, Monday – Friday only please!