Welcome…
to the new site for the original LA DOMAINE ESEMAR, the world’s oldest, and many say finest, BDSM training chateau and getaway.
“It’s not the size of the chateau, it’s the quality of the wine.” Wine critic Robert Parker
Now taking reservations for:
IMPORTANT DATE CHANGE
THE CHOCOLATE TASTING AND AFTER-PARTY IS NOW FEB. 22 nd
TASTING FROM 2 – 5. DUNGEON PARTY FROM 8 – ?
Unfortunately, our plans to do the Valentine’s week Chocolate Tasting on Feb 15th didn’t work out. Our Chocolustier, slave beauty, had to request the re-schedule. Those of you who have told me you are coming, oh, I mean attending, will now need to reconfirm reconfirm.
For those of you who are unfamiliar with our Valentine’s Week Annual Chocolate Tasting, here’s the details. Slave beauty is a renown desert chef and Master of all things chocolate. For the past several years, she has done her remarkable CHOCOLATE LECTURE AND TASTING here at La Domaine. She begins with a slide lecture presentation on how the magic beans are grown, harvested, cured, processed and turned into the world’s best chocolate. Then, slave beauty guides us through the tasting of some of those world’s best and often often gold medal winners. We explore flavors, textures, tempering and just about everything else that is happening in our mouths. It’s quite a remarkable learning experience. Last year’s selection ranged from Massachusetts to Peru, to Madagascar, to Denmark, to Tanzania and other countries. The range of flavors and textures etc is always absolutely amazing. Those of us who have been attending for years have even reached a point where we can compare yearly vintages of the world’s best chocolates! After the tasting is concluded, one very lucky slave gets all the left-over bits and pieces strategically placed on their body, and – do I really need to tell you the rest? Let’s just say:” Yes Dorothy, chocolate really is anaphrodisiac.”
After the afternoon revelry, we take a dinner break, and then guests return to La Domaine for the party at eight in the dungeon. This always seem to be one of the sexiest parties of the year and that is probably because: “Yes Dorothy, chocolate really is an aphrodisiac.”
Tributes for this extravaganza: Tasting $75 an individual, $125 couple. Party $300 an individual, $125 a couple,. Tasting and party $350 an individual, $200 a couple. (Individuals at La D parties get a lot of our attention, – no wall flowers allowed, unless of course the individual is a voyeur!)
Like all our food events in the dungeon, attendance is very limited. To be sure you are on the list, everyone now needs to get in touch with me, even if you have already given a verbal commitment or said you would like to attend. Best way to reserve is to call: 518 375 3387, 10 – 7 est, m – f.
A VERY SPECIAL WEEKEND-LONG FEM DOM EVENT
JUBILEE: NIGHT OF THE QUEENS!!!
APRIL 25, 26
Night of the Queens is a traveling series of revered underground, international weekends, dedicated to Femocracy. They are presented around the world. This year, in addition to Night of the Queens events in Dubai, Tokyo, Manilla, Bangkok, Paris and Granada, a very special, attendance extremely limited, first of its kind, Night of the Queens Jubilee, will be held right here in upstate NY, (the kink capitol of the world Ha!), at La Domaine.
Spanish Dominatrix Lady Monique de Nemours
This is a very special honor for us. The event will be hosted by the internationally renowned, Spanish Dominatrix Lady Monique de Nemours. She will be joined by several other Domina of international stature. The weekend is open to couples and individuals. Friday there will be both a dinner and a play party. Friday night’s soiree will be intimate, limited to Lady Monique and her traveling fellow presenters, the Guest Dominas, open only to people who are staying at La Domaine and the La D Mistresses, Masters and slaves (We are renting out all the bedrooms for this weekend.) Saturday is open to all who book to attend. To know more, and to book your reservations for the event, go to this link. https://www.nightsofthequeens.com/the-jubilee-of-the-queens-new-york-state.
IMPORTANT: If you wish to stay at La Domaine for the weekend, the La D guest rooms must be booked separately, directly through La D. (518 375 3387, 10 – 7 est, m – f. Best do this asap, one of the rooms is already reserved.)
IMPORTANT: SHOW US YOUR INTEREST…
We are seriously considering doing a SUBMISSIVE TRAINING WEEKEND and a separate DOMINA TRAINING WEEKEND sometime this fall. Our ideas are flowing. We are open to input. Your ideas could help shape these projects. VERY IMPORTANT; if you think you are interested in attending, please reach out to us. We have had requests to revive these weekends for years. Now we are trying to gauge the active interest. If you think you’d like to attend, or if you’d like to hear our thoughts on what will be happening, please send us an email or call Master R. 518 375 3387, 10 – 7 est, m – f. Masterrladomaine@gmail.com
PLEASE SIGN UP FOR THE LA DOMAINE NEWSLETTER
(See tab and link to the right)
We try to make it a very interesting read. It will keep you informed on the special events that are happening here, what great Masters and Mistresses are visiting, sessioning and teaching, and what upcoming La Domaine seminars, workshops and extended workshops will be taking place.
Sign up and you will be among the first to know when we are doing our special Dinners in the Dungeon, Wine Tastings and slave beauty’s remarkable chocolate tastings w/ lecture. In addition, each Newsletter has links to very special erotic artists and crafts persons. (If you have artists to recommend, please let Master R know who you feel we should be highlighting.)
Each Newsletter also has a touch of philosophy, BDSM history, and even a bit of Master R’s senseless of humor. It occasionally contains anecdotes from the greatest La Domaine adventures and misadventures. It always has interesting photographs.
Signing up for The Newsletter is an essential part of staying in touch with what is happening at La Domaine, so please sign up, share the fun, and join in the excitement.
Celebrating 30+ Years
For more than three decades, La Domaine has been providing, as Skin Two Magazine said in 1996: “High Level SM.” Now, more than two decades later, reviewed in media around the world, having been the subject of TV shows and documentaries from Australia, Russia, Germany, Venezuela, England, and the US, and having been published and quoted as experts in newspapers and magazines as wide ranging as the Huffington Post to the London Sun, and with appearances on Lisa Ling and Vice Network among others, LA DOMAINE ESEMAR remains a simple, small, ranch house, with down to earth people, on a beautiful mountain side in upstate NY.
Training, Events, Education & Getaway
That ranch house just happens to provide some of the finest training for Mistress, Masters, slaves and submissives, professional and private, house and personal, found anywhere. It is also THE Get-away For Couples; the very first Bed & Dungeon. (Master R coined the term in 1993!) In the past 30 years, over 700 Couples have visited La Domaine. They have learned and loved here, and many of them still think of La Domaine as “home.”
The La Domaine Mistresses and Masters are like no others. With their firmly and carefully developed sense of the importance of BDSM in human psyche, La Domaine sessions, offered to individuals and couples, are at the highest end of professional BDSM session skill.
La Domaine’s Mistress and Master in Training Program has trained some of the finest professional and private Mistresses and Masters around today. Short visit, weekend and in-depth training are all available.
We also have: the most amazing, Couples Parties with special Guest Workshop presentations, an incredibly well-equipped Dungeon, a large, out-of-doors play space, Special Events and Educational Workshops and gourmet Dinners in the Dungeon. The La Domaine Kitchen is renown among chefs, and uses only the finest organic and all natural foods! Come dine with us.
Master R is available to provide and has been giving Educational Presentations and Workshops for Colleges, Mensa groups, BDSM organizations and rowdy bars since 1985. He is frequently joined by other members of the La Domaine family. These presentations are often said to be life changing. Please use the contact information below to inquire.
With all this to offer, we ask you be patient while we bring our new website to fulfillment. All the links will soon have both the appropriate information and the sexy photos you came to expect when you went to the old website.
Think You Are Not Advanced Enough?
One of the most important things to remember when looking through our website is that everyone here started as a beginner. We all greatly enjoy working with beginners, and we feel there is no better place on earth to start your explorations. One of the most central precepts we teach here is: “It does no good to take anyone anyplace they do not belong.”
This danger is one that novices face in their explorations, but it is a danger that is lessened here specifically because of the advanced level of expertise you will encounter at La Domaine. At La Domaine, no one will ever take you somewhere you do not want to go. We will even stop you from going to places we feel you are not yet ready to explore.
Please do not feel deterred because you think you are not advanced enough to share with us. Rather, you should feel this is the finest, as well as the safest, place, to begin your earliest explorations. If you are taking the first few steps out of your own bedroom, whether you are an individual or a couple, please understand that you are welcome to come and grow with the extremely knowledgeable Mistresses, Masters and slaves at La Domaine, and your sexuality will be the most enhanced by starting with the best that is available for your journey.
We Look Forward To Hearing From You
For more general information, answers to questions, and to make reservations, please contact La Domaine directly at MasterRLaDomaine@gmail.com or call and have a fun conversation: (518) 375‑3387, 10am – 7pm EST, Monday – Friday only please!