Welcome…
to the new site for the original LA DOMAINE ESEMAR, the world’s oldest, and many say finest, BDSM training chateau and getaway.
“It’s not the size of the chateau, it’s the quality of the wine.” Wine critic Robert Parker
Coming Attractions for 2024
Now taking reservations for:
THE LA DOMAINE FOURTH DECADE DINNER IN THE DUNGEON
DECEMBER 7, 6 pm. – 9 pm
This last week of November marks the beginning of La Domaine’s fourth decade! This calls for a once in every fourth decade celebration dinner: It’s time for a legendary La Domaine DINNER IN THE DUNGEON.
Our Dinners are always a “spectacular spectacular.” The menu is of the highest gourmet level and the extraordinary wines are carefully matched to the exquisite dishes.
The menu is yet to be determined, but there will be Master R’s “Best In The World Gravlax,” prepared and served in the traditional Norwegian style; with tomatoes, purple onion, hard boiled eggs (separated of course), capers, aioli and yellow mustard (mixed of course). Lady Do has requested we include a lagniappe we invented here; “Frankengras” (Deglet dates, marinated in Doisy Daene Barsac/Sauternes, stuffed with Hudson Valley Foie Gras, and broiled wrapped in cherry-wood smoked bacon.) Another request has been for Master Gary’s Venison Stew, the great hit of the 30th Anniversary Dinner in the Dungeon. There is even a possibility of the legendary “Fabbit” (Fabulous Rabbit) making an appearance. When we asked The Baroness what she would like to see on a seven course La Domaine menu, she replied “seven courses of Fabbit,” The desserts might be Lavender and Rose sorbet and Port Au Fig Ice Cream, served with the traditional La D Ugly Duckling Chocolate Cake. If you know La Domaine’s taste in vino, there is no need to say anything about the wines, sherries and Champagnes; if you don’t know, you need to be here.
It’s all served in the dungeon. The tribute is $175 a person, $300 a couple. This includes the follow-up play in the dungeon. The attendance for this amazing Bone Soiree will be extremely limited, (twelve guests) so please make your reservations asap. We hope you can attend our once in every four decades extravaganza!
Reservations by phone only. 518 375 3387, 10 – 7 est, m – f.
IMPORTANT: SHOW US YOUR INTEREST…
We are seriously considering doing a SUBMISSIVE TRAINING WEEKEND and a separate DOMINA TRAINING WEEKEND sometime this fall. Our ideas are flowing. We are open to input. Your ideas could help shape these projects. VERY IMPORTANT; if you think you are interested in attending, please reach out to us. We have had requests to revive these weekends for years. Now we are trying to gauge the active interest. If you think you’d like to attend, or if you’d like to hear our thoughts on what will be happening, please send us an email or call Master R. 518 375 3387, 10 – 7 est, m – f. Masterrladomaine@gmail.com
PLEASE SIGN UP FOR THE LA DOMAINE NEWSLETTER
(See tab and link to the right)
We try to make it a very interesting read. It will keep you informed on the special events that are happening here, what great Masters and Mistresses are visiting, sessioning and teaching, and what upcoming La Domaine seminars, workshops and extended workshops will be taking place.
Sign up and you will be among the first to know when we are doing our special Dinners in the Dungeon, Wine Tastings and slave beauty’s remarkable chocolate tastings w/ lecture. In addition, each Newsletter has links to very special erotic artists and crafts persons. (If you have artists to recommend, please let Master R know who you feel we should be highlighting.)
Each Newsletter also has a touch of philosophy, BDSM history, and even a bit of Master R’s senseless of humor. It occasionally contains anecdotes from the greatest La Domaine adventures and misadventures. It always has interesting photographs.
Signing up for The Newsletter is an essential part of staying in touch with what is happening at La Domaine, so please sign up, share the fun, and join in the excitement.
Celebrating 30+ Years
For more than three decades, La Domaine has been providing, as Skin Two Magazine said in 1996: “High Level SM.” Now, more than two decades later, reviewed in media around the world, having been the subject of TV shows and documentaries from Australia, Russia, Germany, Venezuela, England, and the US, and having been published and quoted as experts in newspapers and magazines as wide ranging as the Huffington Post to the London Sun, and with appearances on Lisa Ling and Vice Network among others, LA DOMAINE ESEMAR remains a simple, small, ranch house, with down to earth people, on a beautiful mountain side in upstate NY.
Training, Events, Education & Getaway
That ranch house just happens to provide some of the finest training for Mistress, Masters, slaves and submissives, professional and private, house and personal, found anywhere. It is also THE Get-away For Couples; the very first Bed & Dungeon. (Master R coined the term in 1993!) In the past 30 years, over 700 Couples have visited La Domaine. They have learned and loved here, and many of them still think of La Domaine as “home.”
The La Domaine Mistresses and Masters are like no others. With their firmly and carefully developed sense of the importance of BDSM in human psyche, La Domaine sessions, offered to individuals and couples, are at the highest end of professional BDSM session skill.
La Domaine’s Mistress and Master in Training Program has trained some of the finest professional and private Mistresses and Masters around today. Short visit, weekend and in-depth training are all available.
We also have: the most amazing, Couples Parties with special Guest Workshop presentations, an incredibly well-equipped Dungeon, a large, out-of-doors play space, Special Events and Educational Workshops and gourmet Dinners in the Dungeon. The La Domaine Kitchen is renown among chefs, and uses only the finest organic and all natural foods! Come dine with us.
Master R is available to provide and has been giving Educational Presentations and Workshops for Colleges, Mensa groups, BDSM organizations and rowdy bars since 1985. He is frequently joined by other members of the La Domaine family. These presentations are often said to be life changing. Please use the contact information below to inquire.
With all this to offer, we ask you be patient while we bring our new website to fulfillment. All the links will soon have both the appropriate information and the sexy photos you came to expect when you went to the old website.
Think You Are Not Advanced Enough?
One of the most important things to remember when looking through our website is that everyone here started as a beginner. We all greatly enjoy working with beginners, and we feel there is no better place on earth to start your explorations. One of the most central precepts we teach here is: “It does no good to take anyone anyplace they do not belong.”
This danger is one that novices face in their explorations, but it is a danger that is lessened here specifically because of the advanced level of expertise you will encounter at La Domaine. At La Domaine, no one will ever take you somewhere you do not want to go. We will even stop you from going to places we feel you are not yet ready to explore.
Please do not feel deterred because you think you are not advanced enough to share with us. Rather, you should feel this is the finest, as well as the safest, place, to begin your earliest explorations. If you are taking the first few steps out of your own bedroom, whether you are an individual or a couple, please understand that you are welcome to come and grow with the extremely knowledgeable Mistresses, Masters and slaves at La Domaine, and your sexuality will be the most enhanced by starting with the best that is available for your journey.
We Look Forward To Hearing From You
For more general information, answers to questions, and to make reservations, please contact La Domaine directly at MasterRLaDomaine@gmail.com or call and have a fun conversation: (518) 375‑3387, 10am – 7pm EST, Monday – Friday only please!